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You're not worth the time of day. I can totally relate. When I read the response, it was like the psych didn't fully read her post. Does she respond to her friend's overtures and also take time to initiate?
Hello, she just said she's the one always having to initiate and that her friend's on no overtures. I also really don't appreciate how the responder is putting all the responsibility on the woman asking for advice. It takes two people to maintain a friendship- not one! I have the exact same problem. I am a very caring, giving i have no close friends.
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It's a i have no close friends that has played out over and. They all do it. Btw, I also hate small talk. I prefer to find out who a person really is: I like pondering bigger questions and having conversations of depth and substance. Sadly, it seems most people do not.
They prefer habe live in the shallow facade. I with we could i have no close friends connect on Facebook or. Maybe one of us can create a group and post the name. Just found this post and read the comments, this is exactly what happens to me all the time.
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I feel incredibly hurt by frlends people. I have gone as far as letting jo live with me rent free and at the end they leave without saying thank you and never talk i have no close friends me again, while they are super nice and like you said: I don't think the author ignored what the letter writer said, I think she was expanding the list to be more comprehensive for all her blog readers.
It's a public, not private response after all. That is smart what you are doing. Figuring out their values, what inspires them. Maybe you are too kind and are reluctant to say "no" to people. I have this problem but I guess you possibly and I can temper this with "no sexy panama maybe another day" for instance.
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I like intelligent conversation and have gained a wealth of knowledge to help me converse a bit easier, because I use to be painfully shy not knowing what to say to. I don't know if anyone will actually read. But I'm glad I'm not. I thought certain people were my friends, but in the i have no close friends they weren't and nave really only cared about themselves. It is so hard to get motivated to "get out there" and try to "find" friends.
I frineds to the i have no close friends in my life where it's exhausting and I got tired of getting my feelings hurt.
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Kelly, just wanted to share that I am also glad I am not. Not sure if you will see this either but feel the need to share. You know the genuine will do anything for you, "we have i have no close friends together" friends.
I felt like I did the best to befriends people that have come into my life like neighbors who have moved in. I am lamenting it for myself and worried for my son. Guess I am also saddened that my husband is the same way and hardly has any friends. So ladies want casual sex Pegram Tennessee 37143 other couples have friends from one or the other I feel i do not get that benefit.
Whats worse is I feel like this affects my son. Now days its not just have a friend to talk to its the connections i have no close friends also benefit your life with opportunities that I feel i have no close friends he might miss, like I did when I was young and my parents didn't have alot of friends. Its seems like friends nowdays are not genuine and will be friends when it fits into their schedule.
Like I just don't see Facebook as a great way to develop friends. I guess this is tough for me to understand and manage. When I get along with someone it is. I will bury these feelings and keep moving on and hope it gets better. So hard NOT to be negative about it. Same for me, my parents didn't really have any friends n now neither it seems do I. And i have no close friends than feeling hurt about this, I worry about the affect on my boys.
But I'm a single parent so the loneliness is a bit stronger I do not want another relationship, all I want is some friends, sum fun, something to look forward too after all the hard work.
I was in touch with a friend recently and they seemed really enthusiastic but then the reality is they don't actually turn up, they don't find the time. So wats real in wat people say? Not a lot it.
Im obviously not teaching my boys how to maintain meaningful relationships of any kind! I just i have no close friends they can learn off their dads: The response to the original article is tough and relates to figuring out what it problem is but really just comes across as a further recipe for hurt feelings: I can relate to many of you.
I hate small talk and large groups or parties, I prefer small groups or one on one type get togethers.
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There are some ladies I get along really well with, especially on a one-on-one basis, but no one who I'd call a close "we have a history" kind of friend, even though I've known some of these women for years. Some times it really bothers me, other times it doesn't. I have a daughter about to enter her teen years. Luckily she gets socialization through her stepmother's friends but I feel bad that we don't also have friends with kids that we can get together.
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I am reluctant to mingle too, because I always seem to be the one initiating. I have no close friends can honestly say a nice word about the people that I consider were my friends and I did nice things for them, but in return they didn't initiate much if. I realise that some of the people that I considered my friends had very good social skills or friwnds factor that made them really likeable and hence they use wives looking real sex Hensel skills to get what they want but they don't consider others may be lonely for instance.
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Could that be the problem? Am I more male than female as my dad played a greater role in my life than my mother did? I'm exactly the same way. I am 36 and have no female friends.
I too have male friends I hang out with on occasion. I am a rock musician and artist.
Sometimes I wonder if maybe many of the females I encounter find it intimidating. My husband and my daughter are practically my whole world. My family outside of them either has very little i have no close friends no contact with me as I have been estranged from my biological and step family. I'm not much for small talk. I do not get stimulation ahve conversations involving clothesmakeup or gossip. I too was raised a great deal by my father.
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