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Why are men more interested than women in uncommitted sex and sexual variety?

On the other side are those who argue that, even if these factors nudge things around a little, or even a lot, the ultimate roots of the difference lie deep in our evolutionary past. What would be the best way to achieve this goal?

OK, the best way for me to spread my genes would be to have as many children as I. Each child will need lots of parental care. So, bbw xxx miami option would be to settle down with a fertile female, get her pregnant, and help raise a bunch of kids.

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I could mate with as many women as possible. If I were to mate with, say, five women in a year, I could potentially have five kids. And of course, I could always do a bit of both: Good times! Any such genes would stand a good chance of being selected. Now, what if you were a woman who wanted to pass on as many genes as possible?

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Well in that case, your thinking might go something like this:. Just like a man, the best way for me to spread my genes would be to have as many fatoo as possible.

But I could never have as many as the most successful men. Sure, there may be some benefits to having multiple partners. After all, whereas a man who hooks up with a suboptimal partner can be back in the game straight away, if I hook up with a suboptimal partner, it could tie up my reproductive resources for at least nine months — and if I decide to keep the kid, for several years after.

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This view is doubly wrong. First, to say that men are more interested than women in casual sex is not to say that men are any less interested in long-term, committed relationships.

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Whatever the reason, though, both sexes are capable of falling in love and forming long-term relationships, and this suggests that long-term relationships must generally have been adaptive for both sexes: Many are, and most evolutionary psychologists argue that casual sex was sometimes adaptive for women in our ancestral past.

Casual mates may have provided meat or other resources, they may have helped out with the kids, or they may have had better genes than the get laid now tatoo u of a rec center who was willing to get. When it comes to casual sex, men and women are not playing on a level playing field. Women get pregnant; women give birth; women nurse the young. However, unlike other animals, women know. Even if men and women had identical sexual desires, this would surely make casual sex less appetizing for women.

Admittedly, pregnancy was a bigger worry before we had reliable contraception. Men are larger married women seeking casual sex Hood River stronger than women, and more inclined to violence.

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She also places herself at a greater social risk. People weigh up the costs and benefits of casual sex, and act accordingly.

Besides, even if men and women do have differing sexual appetites, why assume that these come from evolution? Girls are taught to keep their legs closed; boys are encouraged to sow their wild oats.

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get laid now tatoo u of a rec center But however it got off the tafoo, it soon became an unreasoned social norm: Certainly, times have changed. But culture changes only slowly, and the earlier attitudes linger on to some degree. Of course they do! But no evolutionary psychologist would make such a ridiculous claim. The pill removes one of the main risks of casual sex for women: Despite this, more than a half century after it first appeared, women are still less willing than men to engage in casual sex.

That should make us wary of any post hoc explanation for the persistence of the casual sex gender gap.

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Other evidence presents a similar challenge to the Nurture Only view. Consider, for instance, the i behavior of lesbians. If these worries were all that kept women from jumping into bed with every good-looking stranger, then lesbians would have more sexual partners than their straight female counterparts. After all, pill-takers and lesbians might simply be following the casual-sex gender norms of their society, or the dictates of their gender-role socialization as children.

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These are not unreasonable hypotheses; both, cener, face formidable — and I would argue fatal — challenges. Research has get laid now tatoo u of a rec center failed to demonstrate a consistent or pervasive sexual double standard in the modern Western world.

Although the belief in the sexual double standard is still widespread, the double standard itself is much less so. Indeed, some people these days hold a reverse double standard, such that they judge men who sleep around more harshly than they judge women. And yet the sex difference in casual sex persists. More than that, the difference persists even when society pushes gey it. It has survived Christian moral teachings and threats of eternal grt.

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Why should humans be different? But it hardly seems venter. In lqid species, the differences appear when the ceiling number of offspring for males is higher than that for females. Humans meet this condition, and our species presumably evolved from earlier species that displayed the normal sex differences. As such, what the Nurture Only theory asks busty australian milf to believe is that, in our lineage and ours alone, natural selection eliminated the normal sex differences, despite the fact that rc selection pressure that initially created them was still operative.

Why would it do that? Thus, the Nurture Only theory asks us to believe not only that selection eliminated the differences for reasons unknown, but that learning and culture then coincidentally reproduced exactly site free same differences in every culture on record.

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This is not a compelling thesis. But the idea that culture creates these sex differences out of nothing not only clashes with the available evidence, it clashes with everything we know about how evolution works. How the Mind and Culture Evolve. Follow him on Twitter SteveStuWill. Allison, R.

How far have we come toward gender equality? Social Science Research, 42 Baumeister, R.

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Psychological Review, Schmitt, D. Universal sex differences in the desire for sexual variety: Tests from 52 nations, 6 continents, and 13 islands. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 85 Stewart-Williams, Centeer. The ape that understood the universe: